I do not take submissive bookings with new clients. I am not a pro sub; I am not prepared to have someone crossing my boundaries in such a manner, and need to ensure I can trust anyone who is after submissive bookings. You must have had a prior booking with me of an hour or longer, and I reserve the right to refuse submissive services if I don't believe that booking has proven you are someone to be trusted.
I do not offer submissive services for group bookings at any time. If there is more than one client, you may not ask for this service.
Services I will not allow
Excessive pulling and knotting of my hair
Blows to the face or head
Any kind of biting
ATM (ass to mouth), and anal gaping
Bareback penetrative services of any kind, including BBBJ
Anal sex to vaginal sex without changing the condom
Medical fetish play, including needle and piercing play
Roman showers (giving or receiving) and vomit play
Brown showers (receiving) and scat play
Excessive restraint and any rope restraint without knowledge of prior training
Excessive caning, whipping or paddling (discussions can be had about what is excessive, and there may be negotiation involved as bruising will affect my future work)
Anything involving knives or fire
Urethral sounding (receiving)
Public sex (exception made for group bookings and swinger parties)
Ongoing D/s arrangements
Services I will allow
(dependent on state legislature)
Light breath play
Restraint (to an extent)
Shibari and suspension (if you are a decent practitioner - I am an intermediately experienced rope bunny)
Anal sex and enema play
Golden showers and watersports
Sensory play and sensory deprivation
Verbal humiliation (limits discussed beforehand)
Physical humiliation (limits discussed beforehand)
Daddy dom/little girl play
Protected full service and CBJ
Doubles involving a Domme or second submissive
Orgasm denial and edging
Why offer it at all?
I have a lot of clients who book with me because they would really like to experience something new with someone who can accurately express their boundaries and limitations, and someone who is happy to coach them through it. They are mainly vanilla, but sometimes they want to try something spicy with someone they already trust. That is the reason I have decided to offer this service, and why it has so many caveats.
If this seems like too much in the way of boundaries, then I suggest you see a professional submissive - I can recommend a couple! Please be aware that as real humans with feelings, they will also have some boundaries, just less strict than mine. Please treat them with respect.